You were born with a growth mindset.
Mindsets have the power to transform behaviors, trajectories and entire systems. 🧠
Mistakes, failure and awkwardness are not a sign of weakness or inferiority.
They are the very ingredient of something NEW.
When something feels awkward or unfamiliar, that’s a sign that you are activating new electrochemical activity in your brain... venturing into ‘new neural territory’.
Every firing of new connections increases the chance that those connections will fire again. Those first electro-chemical firings don’t feel familiar or masterful. But they are necessary for launching new networks that eventually (with consistent effort) become a place of mastery and earned skill.
Bonanno, G. A., & Burton, C. L. (2013) Regulatory flexibility: an individual differences perspective on coping and emotion regulation, Perspectives on Psychological Science
Rutter, M. (2012). Resilience as a dynamic concept. Development and Psychopathology, 24(2), 335–44. http://dx.doi.org/10.1017/S0954579412000028
Here is an additional short video about growth mindset!
This spring, I will be holding a free seminar on how to build your presence as an expert and authority in personal development/ life mastery. Some people believe we need to have a huge social media following for this to be true. But social media followers do not necessarily translate to devoted, repeat and influential clients who grow your business for you behind the scenes - they of course can, but in my case this hasn’t been needed. There is also something called the ‘living room approach’ - creating a more intimate circle of connections that are interdependent of each others’ expertise (having a newsletter and using LinkedIn has been helpful as well). If you’re looking for how to stand out in the sea of sameness that exists in the personal development space, this workshop is for you! Stay tuned!
*my book on the Biomechanics of Human Communication goes into this in detail. It’s available here on Amazon but if it is sold out, you can also get it here